I began college in fall. A female barista gave me her number while I bought coffee. I called her that night. She told me to come meet her the next day when she got off work and we would talk. I showed up at 5:00 p.m. and we walked around campus talking. She told me she was 32 and had just gotten out of a bad divorce 3 years prior. She had a daughter when she was 16. Her daughter is at her dad's like 95% of the time. I walked her too her car and we made a date for the weekend. After our 2nd date we went back to her place and she came on to me and we had sex. We have been dating for about 8 and half months now. I am trying to move out of my dorm and get a place of my own so she can move in. I have a job that pays and after college I will be making good money to support her. Her mother hates me. Her and her mother argue all the time. I just keep my mouth shut and stay out of it, because her mother is crazy. I swear that woman is crazy and wants to kill me. Ever since we began dating her daughter has been spending more time with her. I try to be nice to the daughter, however sometimes I cannot tell whether she wants to kill me or is attracted to me. Anyways I love my girlfriend. She is great at sex, is beautiful, she makes me feel good and keeps me calm. Other people seem to think she is a cougar and that I am in a crazy situation simply because I was seduced? What do you think?
Best Answer:
WaldoBC at 05 May,2013
I was 19 when my Irish girlfriend at the time was 30. But, you have a 14 year difference. When you are 44 wanting to have kids... she'll be 58. So, I say for a long-lasting relationship that will last years and years until one of you dies... I don't think this is what you are really looking for. But, great sex with an "experienced" woman who enjoys your company... there is nothing wrong. There is nothing wrong if each of you is "taking advantage of the other" for sexual reasons in a purely sexual relationship. Enjoy it while it lasts.
Other Answers:
- kill me kill me right this instant
- Theres only one real problem.....I cant give you a high-five over the internet.
- Nope in my opinion if she likes you and you like her nothing wrong. You are of legal age. As long as she doesn't take advantage of you it's fine. It's your life do what you please.
- No I think it's fine. Just screw them cause you would have better sex cause she has experience. Absolutely nothing wrong. Love has no age limits
- Well that's a little weird because her step dad would only be 2 years older than her... And usually a kids dad is suppose to be like 20 years older.. :P
I mean I would find it a little strange. That's a 14 age difference. I mean you're at the age of an adult, so it would be your choice. Just do what's comfortable for you. - This is a disgrace
- Yes, but you do not have the wisdom, experience or maturity to see it yet.
Actually the problems are more for her than for you, so enjoy yourself while you can.
This is a story you can tell your friends when YOU are 32.
Of course you will NEVER be able to tell it to your kids.
I mean what do you say when you 18 year old daughter comes to you ready to move in with that 32 year old gentleman? You can't exactly say no now, can you? - I was 19 when my Irish girlfriend at the time was 30. But, you have a 14 year difference. When you are 44 wanting to have kids... she'll be 58. So, I say for a long-lasting relationship that will last years and years until one of you dies... I don't think this is what you are really looking for.
But, great sex with an "experienced" woman who enjoys your company... there is nothing wrong. There is nothing wrong if each of you is "taking advantage of the other" for sexual reasons in a purely sexual relationship. Enjoy it while it lasts. - even though the age difference is kinda big(over 10 years)...it's perfectly fine since you're legal....but your relationship with her most likely wont last
- I agree with Fezile!!!