So there's this guy I talk to.He's married but we've been friends for years.He's much older than me by the way.Anyway I asked if he could send me money and he said he would but didn't.I refuse to beg a person so I let it go.But he keeps calling me and I've been ignoring him because I don't want nothing to do with him.
Best Answer:
Hourglass at 18 May,2013
He sounds like a piece of work. If he is married & playing around with u, he knows playing isn't free. Tell him to give u some $ or you'll ask his wife. If he refuses, change your number & find a man who isn't cheap, preferbly not married too;)
Other Answers:
- Well, no.
But I'm not stupid, so... - Wtf. You just demand money from everybody you know and tantrum when they don't give it to you? How do you still have friends?
- There's so many details left out of this that I wouldn't be able to give you a decent answer.
- so he's your suga daddy??
- He sounds like a piece of work. If he is married & playing around with u, he knows playing isn't free. Tell him to give u some $ or you'll ask his wife. If he refuses, change your number & find a man who isn't cheap, preferbly not married too;)
- Needs more details, for instance if I am going to lose the room over my child head, and he promised me money and didn't give it without a good excuse, I would definitely not count him as friend.
That said, what is the money for, a health surgery, life support, unpaid hospital bills, a future investment, what was the money return policy, is it a gift, a loan, an investment? How did he say he would, under what circumstance did he said yes, etc he was alone and he said yes. Then when he tried to take out money, the bank wouldn't let him without informing his spouse, if it's a shared account and large amount, and she refused. There are so many situations and you must walk a mile in his shoes before you can understand him.
Ignoring his calls isn't the mature thing to do, answer the phone if you don't want him calling anymore simply say "Your calls are unwelcomed, they are harassment. Please put my number on your 'Do Not Call List'. Future calls will be recorded and I reserve the right to use them in the court of law."
If you are willing to hear him out, tell him how he made you feel when he didn't keep his word, why you choose to call him specifically, why you thought he would keep his word, and how in good faith you had make judgement calls based his word, and the resulting fallout as the results. Your loses as a result of him not keeping his word.