Would you date someone after they've rejected you and only wanted to be friends?

Asked by . at 22 May,2013
Let's say you liked someone but they didn't like you back but not because they were taken but because they were not interested in you for a quite a few reasons. But later on they realized they liked you after all and had feelings for you. Would you date them? WHY OR WHY NOT?

Best Answer:

Salt at 22 May,2013
No. I only give one chance. I have my own pride and I'm not there at people's disposal whenever they feel like being with me. Didn't want me in the past, well, too bad and too late. Plus, the rejection would have left me with too much of a bitter taste to be able to retain any feelings for the said person. I'd probably be over them long before they realized they liked me. Like I said, too late.

Other Answers:

1. I would consider it.
   
2. Yeah probably. I wouldn't have anything against a girl who rejected me unless she did if for a dumb reason like I wasn't muscular enough.
   
3. If I still liked them yes. It takes some people more time to develop feelings for somebody, or maybe they didn't see you as they see you now, or maybe they even changed as people and realized that you're the best person to be in their lives at this moment. You should never give something you want up because of pride.
   
4. No. If you're not banging her.... there is NO reason whatsoever to associate with a female. Women are ALWAYS giving guys the brush.... and then the guy makes some money, gets a little older... gets a little wiser... gets a little fame... GETS ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND..... and the chicks who wouldn't give him the time of day, are starting to think he looks pretty good!
   
   EJECT THEM WITH ZERO HESITATION OR REMORSE.
   
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CfiSD6F6wQo
   
   ONE CHANCE.
   PER CHICK.
   PER LIFETIME.
   
   NO EXCEPTIONS. .
   
   If she didn't want you THEN.... why would she suddenly want you NOW???????
   
5. No. I only give one chance. I have my own pride and I'm not there at people's disposal whenever they feel like being with me. Didn't want me in the past, well, too bad and too late. Plus, the rejection would have left me with too much of a bitter taste to be able to retain any feelings for the said person. I'd probably be over them long before they realized they liked me. Like I said, too late.
   
6. No. Once a woman says no to me a part of me just shuts off when it comes to her. I guess it is a defense mechanism to avoid the pain of rejection. I have never yet to date ever got back into a relationship with an ex of mine. Once it is over it is over period. That same feeling cross over into dating for me. I don't take a 'no' personally, but for me 'no' tends to be no forever.
   
   I am not saying that a good quality woman could not get me interested in her a 2nd time, it has just never happened yet.
   
   The only rejection(s) that I have accepted without shutting her down is if she already has a BF or she just isn't looking for a relationship. However if she gives me the line of not looking for a relationship but then starts dating someone else she is black balled.