Why do I get men who are much lower than I am in terms of appearance always hitting on me. I don't dress provocatively or sexily and I don't have an attitude. And please don't lecture me about the benefits of a good personality or about how I am being "shallow" simply by referring to such taboo words as "appearance". I am very well aware that personality plays an equal role in decision making and I never said I reject all these men. I am simply saying I attract them too much, and they keep telling me how beautiful I am which sometimes becomes irritating. @Bad Advice Guy Yeah you are really giving me Bad advice!!! Even so, I am still NOT as ugly as they are and I see many uglier women who get hit on by gorgeous men, so that is not the issue. @Rasku Don't just assume every woman, except your fat girlfriend, must be skinny. I am not skinny, I am average and I am not a bit ch, thank you. Also being with a girl who is fat ONLY for fear of being cheated on is actually a really lame reason and immature at that. You are USING her. Does she know why you are with her? I doubt it, she 'd leave you if she did.
Best Answer:
My Crazy Beautiful Blog.com at 21 May,2013
I get ugly guys too. It's just that the ugly ones are the most confident ones. Hehe that's all it is. I am sure cute guys like you btu some are too shy to ask.
Other Answers:
- Maybe you're ugly haha
- Stop whining an complaing would you want a douchy good looking guy instead of a kinda ugly guy which most if the time are way loyal an nice this is why i don't date skinny chicks there all shallow bitches :/ sorry but its true thank god i have a slightly chubby gf who's been loyal just like me for almost a year now
- I get ugly guys too. It's just that the ugly ones are the most confident ones. Hehe that's all it is.
I am sure cute guys like you btu some are too shy to ask. - I find it hard to believe you are attracting ugly guys. There is no special chemical that brings them to you. There is a Mr. right for everybody and someday you will find him -- if you are looking for him.
- Lady..your a little too full of yourself, and yes you are stuck up.
- I understand where you're coming from! I feel like asking this question online (no matter how you word it) will always make you come across as this narcissistic b****.
I can relate to you and I feel where you're coming from. This may or may not help, but the reason why you attract guys that you do is because, they have nothing to lose. Think about it... If you see someone who is super attractive and you know that he is pretty much out of your league. Wouldn't you still try to talk to him? I mean, what's life without the risks we take? Sure you may be rejected, but you never know until you try.
The same applies to the guys in your situation. Also, it could be that they feel SO confident that they can get anyone they want. Don't take it as a "I'm not attractive, because the guys I attract aren't." Take it as a compliment or not, but be sure to handle the situations nicely. You don't want karma to get you. Also remember... you must be confident in who you are, even if you don't attract the men you want. It's not about what you wear or how you act. Things like this just happen, no worries!
