There's a girl that I know and sadly we went to middle and now (I am in ninth grade), we go to the SAME high school!!! Its killing me. This girl is so perfect. She's smart, beautiful, so beautiful I'd go gay for her (not literally), has perfect hair, skinny, has perfect teeth, a great boyfriend, and she is like really nice and popular. Its so not fair. Me and my friend literally hate her but the thing is, he hasn't done anything to me at all. How can I stop being so jealous? I'm not ugly but I'm not super pretty either. ):
Best Answer:
Alien from Pluto at 22 May,2013
First off since this girl has done nothing to you it's not right for you to hate her just for what she has. Just improve on your attitude and motivation and things we change for the better of you. Don't compare yourself to others that's your problem. Focus on your own life. The more and more you dwell on things the worse the situation gets. Envy gets the worst of us.
Other Answers:
- Just become happy and comfortable with yourself, then other people seeming so much better wont bother you as much.
- Because she's so much better than you and it drives you crazy. Right?
Well, get over it.
There's always going to be people that are better than you throughout your whole life.
Just let it go and be happy with who you are.
Otherwise you're just going to waste a lot of time making yourself miserable for no reason.
Life is short. Go live it and stop worrying about other people - Focus on school or work writing etc.
if you dwell on this sort of thing you won't beat them. you'll be right where you are ten years from now while they are "knocking em dead."
if you want to be successful in life you have to sacrifice the little things like getting involved in that sewing circle talk. it's useless and will get you nowhere. - How about you think of yourself as the top girl that's really pretty
- First off since this girl has done nothing to you it's not right for you to hate her just for what she has. Just improve on your attitude and motivation and things we change for the better of you. Don't compare yourself to others that's your problem. Focus on your own life.
The more and more you dwell on things the worse the situation gets. Envy gets the worst of us. - Stop comparing yourself to other people.
- I bet if you got close to her and became her friend you'd eventually see she isn't "perfect". Nobody is. The sooner you realize that, the better off you'll be.
- I'm just starting to get over that. I would go to school with a new outfit or hairdo and feel confident about myself until I would see another girl who looks way better than me. Then I would be all like "screw it. What's the point." True story too. That was last semester in November. I haven't put much effort in my looks since because I felt like there was no point if someone was always going to beat you. Eventually feeling like this led to the demise of a good relationship. So you can do two things: accept the fact that someone will always be better at you in some form or end up like me: a bitter and lonely girl.
