Sunday, May 19

Why do many men in the GS section act like men don't care how many sexual partners a woman had?

Asked by . at 19 May,2013
Have any other users noticed this besides me? I don’t have the links to the questions anymore, but several guys in this section claim that only women ridicule each other for having a lot of sexual partners and most men couldn’t care less. If that were true, would you mind dating a woman that sucked other men’s penises all the time? Would you marry her? If so, do you think most men share those views? It does seem like a lot of doubletalk to me. The vast majority of my friends are guys and I grew up with brothers. All of them knew of some girl that they considered a slut, whore, etc. based solely on the fact that she gave sex rather easily. And they would talk about her like she was dead, when they thought no one could hear. So why the denial that men care about female modesty just as much as some women do? Dance Moves: I don't know a lot of women that talk about their sex lives with an enormous amount of detail. Again, I call BS CaseNut: Lol No, I care about female modesty. I just find it strange that some men on here deny that they care too. Mr. Dance Moves: She only told one family member, and see how that stuff gets around. lol The guys that I have been around talk about it quite openly.

Best Answer:
Deino at 19 May,2013
Of course we care. But this venue isn't us standing face to face with a girl we are trying to love despite her past sexual experience. We're here with clearer heads, writing based on research and experience. And, ultimately, when you're faced with a chick who's had sex before with whoever, the bottom line is that she can't change history and the future is between her and you. So in YA GS, logically, practically, in all the ways that we can think when we're not flushed with emotion and conjecture, it's easier for men to simply spit the necessary understanding, which is closer to the truth that must exist in a smooth running relationship than the truth of our rocky relationships that we try to carry whilst still blinded by battling our spontaneous urges in the critical moments. I won't say that a woman's sexual partner count doesn't matter, but I will say, clear headed right now, that if a relationship is to be healthy, it cannot be allowed to carry any significance.

Other Answers:
  1. Yea guys slut shame too. I'm guilty if it and I've been trying to stop but I always slip up. But at school guys call girl sluts when they are not part of the reason she's a slut.
  2. I'm not one of those men. I do care.
  3. Here is the catch. If you women were more private with your business nobody would know. Rarely do I talk with guys about who they slept with. And surely don't share that info with other people. Guys don't like to talk about that, cause you never know who to believe, so we avoid the whole "yes man i got like by sammy" convo because it would require proof. Unlike you girls we don't take everything a guy says for face value.

    So if you women want to not get judged on how many people you have sex with then quit telling your girlfriends all the positions and name you are getting into.


    To answer the original question, its kind of hard not to address the topic and be weary once you guys put the info out there. But if we don't know, we aren't going to ask.
  4. Those guys that disrespects women and their moms are rejects that got rejected
  5. Men do care. The truth is what you said, "They ACT like they don't." Players don't give a rat's ass if the vagina is looser than throwing a hotdog down a hallway. Some eventually grow out of that and some have always cared about how many sexual partners. I've asked my boyfriend if he cared how many sexual partners I've had, for example what if i had 10, he said that's too much.
  6. Of course we care.

    But this venue isn't us standing face to face with a girl we are trying to love despite her past sexual experience.
    We're here with clearer heads, writing based on research and experience.
    And, ultimately, when you're faced with a chick who's had sex before with whoever, the bottom line is that she can't change history and the future is between her and you.
    So in YA GS, logically, practically, in all the ways that we can think when we're not flushed with emotion and conjecture, it's easier for men to simply spit the necessary understanding, which is closer to the truth that must exist in a smooth running relationship than the truth of our rocky relationships that we try to carry whilst still blinded by battling our spontaneous urges in the critical moments.

    I won't say that a woman's sexual partner count doesn't matter, but I will say, clear headed right now, that if a relationship is to be healthy, it cannot be allowed to carry any significance.
  7. Are you angry because men don't consider highly sexually active women good for marriage (in the traditional sense)?

    Well, can you blame them? It's basic logic. If she gives away sex easily, they will give sex away easily in the future. People don't change overnight just because they exchanged rings or signed a contract. So if they are expecting a monogamous marriage, that woman, or man if it's a man, is not good marriage material.

    But someone like me, who doesn't expect monogamy anyway, and would sleep around a lot while encouraging her to sleep around too, would not mind.
  8. You know guys no matter what they say care about this!
  9. I'm sorry, we men are so different to women.. many women want to marry an "experienced" man, because they claim such man will please her in bed... And also they like the idea of a man who is desired by other women.. Also , most women dislike the idea of a virgin husband..
    We men think so different.....for instance, we could careless if our girlfriend/wife is desired by other men.. Also, many of us love the idea of a virgin wife.. come on... who wouldn't like a wife who saved herself for marriage? that's so romantic.. so sweet..

    God bless you