1. Emotionless or angry 2. Always observing you 3. Staring at you, making eye contact, don't care if you notice or not 4. If you meet them due to work or school, they initially reciprocate social niceties 5. After a while, they begin to try to single you out, ask too many personal questions, etc 6. Even when you ignore, they continue by intruding when you are alone, in personal conversations, etc 7. Ask others personal questions about you I've met a few men like this and they give off really scary vibes. They seem to target one or few others and everyone seems to ignore their behavior unless you really start asking about it. Please don't say "crush" or anything like that. It's much more than that. It's a hatred/jealousy/attempt to control/consume/harm feeling I gather - not admiration.
Best Answer:
Serena at 17 May,2013
I call them Billy, the Catholic kid who wore a wool cap in the summer. He was my first experience with the type of person you've described. Basically, you just have to be polite but ignore them if they can't accept it. Confidence and appearing aware and "sharp" turns off a lot of these people. They are looking for vulnerabilities. Best advice I can give you is to stop being vulnerable. I know it's not exactly helpful advice, but it's something to think about. Edit: This isn't man-hating. Lolol. If she mentioned a type of woman that causes problems for people, would you oversensitive bunch get off her back? You know, balance out the "hate"? Ugh.
Other Answers:
- well aren't you just a nervous, paranoid little man hater.
you are why men come on here and complain. sheesh, a nice guy trying to be your friend and you feel threatened. I suggest you seek mental health services because you need them. - They're only scary if you're not attracted to him.
Otherwise he is just "mysterious" - I call them Billy, the Catholic kid who wore a wool cap in the summer. He was my first experience with the type of person you've described.
Basically, you just have to be polite but ignore them if they can't accept it. Confidence and appearing aware and "sharp" turns off a lot of these people. They are looking for vulnerabilities. Best advice I can give you is to stop being vulnerable. I know it's not exactly helpful advice, but it's something to think about.
Edit: This isn't man-hating. Lolol. If she mentioned a type of woman that causes problems for people, would you oversensitive bunch get off her back? You know, balance out the "hate"? Ugh. - There is really no way to label them, as most heterosexual men have 2 or more of these traits. The simple answer is that you can't really trust or rely on any straight man out there. They can go off at any time and almost all of them are really aggressive.
- 1. Emotionless or angry Sociopath, psychopath or autistic
2. Always observing you Sociopath or psychopath
3. Staring at you, making eye contact, don't care if you notice or not Control freak
4. If you meet them due to work or school, they initially reciprocate social niceties Narcissist
5. After a while, they begin to try to single you out, ask too many personal questions, etc Narcissist, sociopath and psychopaths
6. Even when you ignore, they continue by intruding when you are alone, in personal conversations, etc Autism or sociopath/narcissist
7. Ask others personal questions about you Narcissist, sociopaths - The worst thing you can do to a guy like that is expose him for what he is and what he is doing. Especially since guys like that generally like to operate in secrecy.
- Never Give Out Sexual Hints, like showing serious cleavage or wearing the shortest skirt or shorts! That's just asking for an answer! Not implying you do but if your really that nervous about it, You should tell someone! Don't let their stupidity get the better of you, get help!
- I wouldn't label him/them... If they give me those kinds of vibes, I avoid them, and not give it another thought.