nobody likes me, or very few people. im really unhappy with my life at the moment and it feels like it will never get better what should i do? please help i need answers i feel like im going crazy :'(
Best Answer:
Jesten at 17 May,2013
First, calm down and take a deep breath. Stop and think about what those people who do care. I know they would rather lose their life for you rather than you losing yours. I've always felt like no one in this world cared for me but when the few people who did, they were willing to do anything to help me overcome my fear of being "unliked." There are always at least one person you know who cares about you. Tell that person what you're going through. It could be a relative or close friend. There is always someone who goes through similar things. And to tell you the truth, no one is going to completely understand you. And I had to learn to accept that. And I also had to learn that not everyone is going to like me, so I had to accept that. You can't do anything to change them, but what you can do is change yourself. Not completely, but be more open to people and try to become closer with people. You might not think that they like you, but it may be because they don't know you. And tell them how you feel. Do you like them or want to be closer to them? If you do, have courage and talk to them about it. People are more willing to be more friendly and real if you talk to them. Also, be sure you are making friends with people who are open to these things. There are nice and truthful people out there but you might just notice them. ;) Also, if you need a friend or anything, I'm always here. I care if you died, I believe no one should kill themselves because they feel unloved. If you want to talk about more, you can email me at just_629@yahoo.com. Please don't kill yourself. I've tried it and I know how you feel. :( I'm always here if you need to talk. :)
Other Answers:
- Your family loves you, they don't want you to suicide
- Never give up. Speak with someone you trust a professional or your pastor if your religious. Killing your self will let the haters win. You will Only hurt your family and your self. Its all perspective. do you have to walk 10's of miles to get water or food? Do you go to sleep hungry at night and wake up with no food. Do you sleep on a park bench,box or under a bush? Its all perspective. If you look at things from a different angles you will see the good in life. All people feel awkward or uncomfortable at times . some are just better at hiding it. Take control of your life. Life can be a B!tch so you need to learn how to F@ck it.
- You should NEVER kill yourself, a psychiatrist can help
- First, calm down and take a deep breath. Stop and think about what those people who do care. I know they would rather lose their life for you rather than you losing yours. I've always felt like no one in this world cared for me but when the few people who did, they were willing to do anything to help me overcome my fear of being "unliked." There are always at least one person you know who cares about you. Tell that person what you're going through. It could be a relative or close friend. There is always someone who goes through similar things. And to tell you the truth, no one is going to completely understand you. And I had to learn to accept that. And I also had to learn that not everyone is going to like me, so I had to accept that. You can't do anything to change them, but what you can do is change yourself. Not completely, but be more open to people and try to become closer with people. You might not think that they like you, but it may be because they don't know you. And tell them how you feel. Do you like them or want to be closer to them? If you do, have courage and talk to them about it. People are more willing to be more friendly and real if you talk to them. Also, be sure you are making friends with people who are open to these things. There are nice and truthful people out there but you might just notice them. ;)
Also, if you need a friend or anything, I'm always here. I care if you died, I believe no one should kill themselves because they feel unloved.
If you want to talk about more, you can email me at just_629@yahoo.com.
Please don't kill yourself. I've tried it and I know how you feel. :(
I'm always here if you need to talk. :) - You are loved trust me. Real accounts of people who have died and what happened to them It may help you and understand that life is really worth living and amazing http://alltherealworld.blogspot.ca/2013/04/the-origin-of-religions.html
- Listen to Afterlife by Switchfoot. A really inspiring song.
- Could you call a suicide hotline anonymously (as I'm sure you don't want to be traced for the EMS and police to take you forcibly to psych e.r., right)?