Wednesday, May 1

Is it just natural that the male should be in charge?

Asked by JM at 30 April,2013
I was wondering because a lot of women rather have a male in charge especially in a relationship. If the male isn't in charge some females lose respect for the male.

Best Answer:
Bishop at 30 April,2013
it's not about being in charge it's about being responsible and women fail that course hands down. they aren't strong enough mentally to take criticism and that's the J O B. people are always going to tell you you aren't good enough or bright enough or you don't smell a certain way blah blah, but see men can tune that stuff out and shrug it off. women on the other hand dwell on that stuff the way a dog gnaws on a bone. that's why they try to poke men with spears all the time because they are amazed at how far they can push us. sometimes they go overboard... who am i kidding they always go overboard but the point is they can't do what we do. everything effects them. so when they say that they are just as tough feel free to laugh in their face till they turn pink. look at Sarah Palin for instance cause she is your typical 2000's female. thinking it will all just be a piece of cake. well the jokes on her. she's lucky she didn't run for presidential against Obama that would have been awkward. her only defense against his intelligence would probably be that he's a bully womanhater.

Other Answers:
  1. no. men can be naturally submissive. is brown hair the only natural color because it is what most people have?
  2. Depends,
    at the beginning, its better to be in charge if you are a man. Just hold yourself in good condition at least for a month. Then no matter, she can be in charge in some cases.

    No worries, just be open to her. Talk...
    Money doesn't mean anything to your relationship as long as you really "love" her.

    Good luck!
  3. it's not about being in charge it's about being responsible and women fail that course hands down. they aren't strong enough mentally to take criticism and that's the J O B. people are always going to tell you you aren't good enough or bright enough or you don't smell a certain way blah blah, but see men can tune that stuff out and shrug it off. women on the other hand dwell on that stuff the way a dog gnaws on a bone.

    that's why they try to poke men with spears all the time because they are amazed at how far they can push us. sometimes they go overboard... who am i kidding they always go overboard but the point is they can't do what we do. everything effects them. so when they say that they are just as tough feel free to laugh in their face till they turn pink.

    look at Sarah Palin for instance cause she is your typical 2000's female. thinking it will all just be a piece of cake. well the jokes on her. she's lucky she didn't run for presidential against Obama that would have been awkward. her only defense against his intelligence would probably be that he's a bully womanhater.
  4. Men are to be the providers and to work, while the women stay home with the children and take care of the house, therefore, the provider gets all of the money, and he should be in charge.
  5. He can be dominant in the bedroom, aside from that, he can take a running jump.