Do you realize that when you ask if it bugs us that you all can keep dating the same age even as you age because you age like wine & we age like milk... Do you realize that your libido really does lower & even a young girl notices lack of endurance, stamina, delayed responses? I have always dated older I like older so this is not a pun at older. I just was curious if these guys know what's going to happen to their libido & the shame that many guys that age feel. I know I have seen their embarrassment even tho its normal & natural its a reality of aging & it makes them feel incompetent. Again I am fine with it but some girls less mature might say things like limp d*ck, shrieveled balls, etc... Okay carry on with your big tw@t, wrinkles, milk slander. I like the classy wine not Boones farm. It is not just about money. Yes there's the gold diggers of course. But there's also maturity & comfort & manners usually Lol Lazy Bones I said older not elderly. Gosh Parraell Nothing I said was racist. I am not racist. And if you look closely you'd see that this was responsive question. Not a promotion but a combative question. Look at the entire board. Also look closely and you will see I am not promoting AGEISM in the slightest inquiring about a possible double inch sword tho. I accepted most everyones answers on her weather in aggreance with me or not as they gave talking points to their view. All you did was accuse me of racism (this isn't racism). And might have stirred the pot but someone else dumped it first. Maybe you should answer the earlier similar questions the same hysterically calling them racist too. Lol
Best Answer:
Alien from Pluto at 17 May,2013
That's not necessarily true. Women on average age faster but some of them actually look better with age. Some older women look insanely hot. Also most men on average lose testosterone when they get older but not all of them have erectile dysfunction some can still get it up. I'm surely not obsessed with age. I date all ages of women. As long as they are of legal age of course.
Other Answers:
- Well, the way I see it... They're not "using their libido" right now, and hoping against hope that it still works when a woman might show some interest in him at an older age...
- It's more about money.
All a woman has to do when she is younger to impress a man is to look good.
But for a young man to impress a young woman, she makes this a whole lot more complicated.
As they age, women lose their looks, and mens lose their looks to. But men have other factors to attract the opposite sex.
It's all about female choice, so when women get butt hurt at these notions, they collectively have themselves to blame. - This is a rant, not a cleverly disguised one at that. You're telling us men what we already know. Rubbing it in won't alleviate the inevitable, but your shelf-life is even shorter.
- That's not necessarily true. Women on average age faster but some of them actually look better with age. Some older women look insanely hot.
Also most men on average lose testosterone when they get older but not all of them have erectile dysfunction some can still get it up.
I'm surely not obsessed with age. I date all ages of women. As long as they are of legal age of course. - I don't believe it has anything to do with a man's appearance or how well he "performs". Most women love and appreciate older men regardless of how many gray hairs he has or if he has a low libido. The reason many guys say men age like fine wine is because men, in some ways, become more desirable and attractive to women as we get older.
We become atractive due to increased maturity, financial stability, wisdom, confidence in ourselves etc and those are the qualities that I hear turns women on the most about older men.
Not very often do women talk about an older man's appearance as being the reason they love older men unless they are turned on by the matured look. The only thing younger men are valued for is energy, eye candy and maybe the supposed reason that we are "moldable". - I think males in this section covered it well. Women are more worried about security (which can only be established by a healthy income or one that is consistent). So for most women they aren't worried about how great you have sex. In all honesty most of the times they out perform their partner or want more when they are in a healthy relationship cause the male is a little older or more focused on work.
If sex is one of the major part of your relationships as a male, its going to fall apart. You just have to not focus on it. Cause eventually the security and paying the bills will keep a woman. More women stay for financial reasons than "the sex was good". If the sex is good, they can break up and continue the sex without all the emotional stuff or less of it.
I know when i got older my sex drive has stopped. But as one teenage user put it. "you are lucky" I wish it was slower when I was younger that when i wasn't in the believe that i wanted to have sex with every girl and she turned me on. Now im more relaxed have women friends.
I guess its a lot easier finding women now that they can't figure me out. You turn a good looking woman down and they think "whats wrong with me, i know I look good, hes not all over me" All that works in my favor.
And who really cares if I don't go for two rounds all the time like I did before. I have better things to do during my day than have sex. I guess Ill take some flack from men about this. But I think sex is overrated anyway. Unless you are in a long term relationship, women use it like "you should be proud i sleep with you" - Well, if we age horribly, and our libido shrivels up as our nuts stretch to our knees, what is it women want from us anyway?
Men who have maturity and manners also usually have more of, what?
You know the answer!
People without maturity and manners often can't hold down _what_ very effectively?
Just admit it! Jeez ladies. You know how many of these stupid gender wars fights we could resolve with some simple honesty? In the long run, women want a man with money. Immature douche bags usually don't have a lot of it. Or, they don't keep the job long enough to build much long term wealth. This is why women often, not always, eventually gravitate to a man who is older than her.
If women would be honest with men, and with themselves, men could figure out better what to do with the information. As it is now, men are running around chasing after the things women don't really care about in order to win them over. However, if men knew women wanted money, and they decide they want a woman, well then these men know what to set their sights on. - You like older men and you work in a nursing home? *adopts Freudian position* Vell, my child, ve can clearly see why you have chosen zis line of vork! <--- (Notice how I included the phallic symbol of the exclamation mark?)
My sex drive is considerably lower now than it was 3 yrs ago. In a way it's a good thing: women dress much more provocatively and are somehow 'offended' when you gawk at their body. It's like holding burgers in front of hungry people and chastising them for wanting a bite.
Yeah right!!! Try backpedal all you want...we know what you mean! ;) - Why do promote prejudice against age or gender ?
Seems like shallow..... racism.
Are you so intolerant to every one who is not just like you?
Or does it make you feel powerful when you stir $hit up ? - Ultra-pasteurized milk has a much longer shelf life...
I have had the chance for a much younger woman to notice my sex drive in bed. Some men feel shame at their lower libido, but I suspect many do not. I'm quite fine with not being a walking b*ner like I was at 19. This allows me more time to focus my thoughts to things like posting on the internet.