Their has been many times I look at posts on here from men saying they can't find a women. They complain women are shallow because they don't like them because they are nerdy, over weight, short or broke. Then they say they want a beautiful women with big breast, a tiny waste and a pretty face. Are they having problems because they don't want women on their "level"? Jimmy, lol I guess that answers my question. Grammar nut, I do understand that I don't know the whole person, I can only go off their posts. As far as the whole serial killer nice guy thing, disturbing. I wonder if this is a gathering place for fledgling serial killers, lol. Adeptus, let's face it when your a unattractive man with a bad additude to boot(like many of the men on here) your gonna have to rethink being too pick. Grappler, that often doesn't work for people, this is why we have so many angry men on here asking why they can't find a women. Looking for women too good for them obviously doesn't work, it only seems to cause frustration and bitterness.
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i love david >^.^< at 05 May,2013
Yes. A prime example, there used to be a user "Sad Guy" - really depressed. he wanted a woman that looks like Kim Kardashian. Sans makeup/photoshop that doesnt even exist
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- Me not really discerny your grammar.
- I'll level with you Bob....all those posts are from me, I just make lots of different accounts. Being unemployed and having no money gives me a lot of down time that I need to fill. And anyway if her name isn't Taylor "the gun" Swift then I'm not interested. Why should a broke, overweight, bald, slow-witted man such as myself settle?
EDIT - Glad I could help clear that up for you Bob :) - Possibly but, since we don't know them personally, it's hard to say for certain.
I think that many of them are broken.
Some of them emphasize what "nice guys" they are.
What they don't realize, though, is that being "nice" doesn't mean that one is inherently good.
Hell, serial killers can be "nice" if they need to be.
The BTK killer was known as a pillar of his community.
Edit: I am NOT claiming that these guys are serial killers -- or even potential ones.
What I meant is that being nice is a social strategy and doesn't necessarily mean that one has integrity and character.
Ted Bundy was known to be very charming and good-looking.
What I have noticed among many of these men is that they don't take responsibility for their experiences in this world.
They are...acting out self-fulfilling prophecies; we generate the results in life we think we deserve.
You also have to factor in their childhoods as well. Do/did they have a strong relationship with their mothers? What about their dads? The most important role model to a child is the parent of the same sex.
If someone, deep down, believes that they don't deserve a decent partner, they will be subconsciously drawn to those who aren't.
In other words, the cheaters, liars and money-hungry.
Then, such a person will most likely become bitter and damaged, assuming that most/all people must be the same.
They are the common denominators here.
It takes maturity and insight to look inside of oneself and these guys just don't get it. - They think that just because Mom loved them unconditionally, every woman should.
- Only narcissists and incredibly shallow individuals believe people have dating "leagues" they should stick with.
- Why should they 'want women at their level'? Do YOU?
They want the best they can get by their own lights - what's wrong with that? they see a gorgeous woman and say 'Oh, Yeah - I just gotta get me a piece of that!" - and you say they are wrong?
The upward trend in looks etc in the human race will not continue if we all seek out the dogs....
Footnote:- I prefer a spiritual connection anyway - looks are within reasonable limits, and there are countless ways a woman can be attractive.... - Yes. A prime example, there used to be a user "Sad Guy" - really depressed. he wanted a woman that looks like Kim Kardashian. Sans makeup/photoshop that doesnt even exist
- I choose to be chronically single. Been single for 5 years now. No regrets.
- You have a good point. I'm like a spotty bloated house brick and I don't expect to go out with a 6ft 4ins body builder who makes £50,000 a year. It is never going to happen. Plus most ugly people learn to look for other important things, so they begin to be able to see past appearances naturally. I guess it's just one of life's lessons.
- No evidence for this. Men usually go for women who are about as desirable as they are; the problem being that most women over-estimate their own value on the dating market, and when reality strikes back they cry because the men they think they deserve aren't approaching them ("where are all the good men"); when in fact it's exactly the men they deserve who are approaching them.
Skewed perspective is a b*tch.
