...how when a woman continually ends up with crappy bfs, she is told by friends, family, and strangers what SHE is doing wrong? Yet, when a man habitually ends up with crappy gfs, the opinions center only on how those girls are b--t--es. I can't be the only one who has noticed that lol! Wow @ the butt hurt men. It's really not that serious, guys. Cool your jets. No one is talking about blame. What's up with the men on GS anyway??? The situation I'm referring to has the primary female & male getting completely screwed over. Nothing is either of their faults. I'm questioning the usual approach of their friends. Girl gets blamed because she only goes after bad boys so "what else do you expect?" Her bfs who screwed her over get called jerks but focus is mainly on HER. Guy does not have his preference evaluated at all. Even though he keeps getting caught in the same situation with every girl he dates, no one thinks to tell him what he is doing wrong. Focus is mainly on the girls who did him wrong. @BOSS - Don't call me sweetie. @Blaine - seems your problem arises from standards within your own gender. You getting screwed over and being called soft for DARING to let some FEMALE get the best of you has absolutely nothing to do with my argume ....argument. My question is for people who don't have the mentality of a 15 yo. @Sanscorp - the fact that you got so many thumbs up lets me know what sort of group I'm dealing with. See: previous butt hurt men statement. And I think what you are looking for is a pimp/prostitute situation, not a real relationship. @TGB - Looka here, Genius, last time I checked, sharing an observation, and essentially asking if anyone has noticed the same, wasn't considered "promoting false information". All you need to do is agree or disagree and keep it moving. But nope, another GS question inspires another butt hurt male response. Shocker!
Best Answer:
i love david =^.^= at 27 April,2013
No lol. Never noticed that.
Other Answers:
- No lol. Never noticed that.
- I noticed it.
LOL at these idiots. They see things how they want to see them. And they want to see themselves as victims who do NOTHING wrong when they do more wrong overall that women. Sad that's the way it has to be. - Nope. It's usually the other way round, sweetie.
- uh....... i don't think so. men take a lot of shit constantly even when they are victimized in relationships. it's always the man's fault. and we are the ones who are paying by the way so you'd expect us to get a little respect but instead it's always our fault.
Even when the woman is a no good ***** it's the guy who gets laughed at by his friends because he was too soft and she played him.
Women do not get this same treatment. no way. i don't think so Pinocchio. - Oh yes, it is always her fault and this principle is even translated to justice where women are always the ones to blame.
- FALSE.
Have you ever heard a woman describe her ex boyfriend as being wonderful?
NEVER.
Because women cannot live with themselves unless they think EVERY EX is a jerk, a-hole or player. Every women refuses to accept personal responsibility for being simply unbearable to tolerate, listen to or live with. She will ALWAYS blame the guy. Just consider what a "relationship" IS to a woman. She thinks a man should be willing to NOT bang other chicks and pay for everything. But what IDIOT would want to sign up for that?
Instead of realizing how dumb it is, she will call any man who walks away from her a "player" or a "loser" instead of admitting that she fails a cost/benefit analysis every single time. - Incorrect.
It is usually the other way around...usually the man is the one who gets blamed.
Stop promoting false information.
