Best Answer:
Serena at 28 April,2013
I don't mean to be "this person", but I can't help noticing that the few men who do believe this nonsense do NOT have much relationship experience. Yeah, some women are definitely attracted to piece of crap men, but the same can be said about men falling in love with piece of crap women. It happens...
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- I hate that too.
- Girls like guys who have shaped eye brows & wear snapbacks.
Like me - Because ugly guys need an excuse as to why they don't get laid.
Men want to get their grubby hands on anything with boobs. When that doesn't happen, they piss off on a forum yelling at women for not giving their 'NICE ASSES' a chance. LOL. - Only men who cannot get a woman say that.
They even misuse the word nice guy to shield their weaknesses like shyness and lack of confidence. - Why is it that many sensible and responsible women are attracted to “bad boys?†What do otherwise conscientious and even conservative women see in rebels and rabble-rousers?
First, understand that bad boys come in many variations and degrees. There are the seriously bad apples who have regular run-ins with the law, habitually use drugs, and get arrested for violent acts. Then there’s the milder varietyâ€"mischief-makers who enjoy breaking rules just because they’re there. These guys have unusually high testosterone, and they haven’t learned to channel all that aggression in a constructive way. So they drive too fast, engage in risky behaviors, and seek out danger. Other guys adopt a bad boy image because it gives them an identity, acceptance in their peer group, or attention from their parents and other adults.
There are typically four reasons good girls fall for guys like these:
1. The impulse to perpetuate what’s familiar.
Many women attracted to rogues had a father who was a little wild and rebellious. Because many girls idealize their father, they may seek a partner with similar traits. This usually isn’t a conscious decision; much of the allure happens below the level of awareness. Girls may also choose these boys on the assumption that Dad will be impressed.
2. The urge to redo the father-daughter relationship.
The motivation is an attempt to revise a troubled or distant relationship with their dad. Often, attraction is fueled by unmet childhood needs from the opposite-sex parent. So if a woman chooses someone reminiscent of her father, her motivation may be to remedy childhood hurts.
3. The drive to rehabilitate or “save†a wayward man.
Simply put, many women are rescuers. It’s a challenge for them to reform an incorrigible man. These women think, Sure, he gets into trouble, but I can change him! Ego is involved as well. It’s inflating when a woman feels like she is the only one who can transform a man.
4. The appetite for adventure.
Other women like the excitement, thrills, and sense of danger bad boys bring. This is especially true for those who have been “good girls†all their lives. Perhaps they grew up in a family that demanded conformity and compliance with rules. So they’re intrigued with men who scoff at rules and shrug off responsibility.
How do these relationships usually turn out? In a word, poorly. That’s because bad boys won’t change unless they want toâ€"no matter how long-suffering their partner might be. Further, despite initial attraction, most women get tired of bailing a man out of jail, wondering if he’ll make it home from a party, or catching him with another woman. Women who sign on with bad boys enlist for endless conflict and turmoil. Ironically, the very thing that draws good girls and bad boys together is usually their undoing. Many women have learned the hard way that bad boys make bad dating partnersâ€"and even worse spouses. - "Bad" can be interpreted in countless ways, it just so happens that bad boys are the most confident and have the best genes.
- When men and women are lonely, they say [insert which sex they're attracted to] are attracted to whatever they aren't.
I agree though, the only kind of 'bad boy' I've seen women attracted to aren't really bad boys. - Only overly nice guys complain about women liking bad boys. There's a huge difference between a nice guy and a doormat. They don't know what confidence is.
Women don't like bad boys teenage girls do. If a grown woman does she has daddy issues.
They like to generalize. It's like saying all men like sluts. - I have never seen a woman who gave a genuinely good guy a chance. They are always after bad boys .Every single one of them.
I am not bitter though nor i complain .But i know how tough it is to get a girl if you are a good guy .
I can get a girl in a heartbeat if i act like a bad boy though. So many guys do that . - No, you do. All of you. It's a real thing.
The thing about women is that they're really stupid, so you may not realize you're going for the a$shole even though you are.
For instance, a common occurrence is for women to go for a guy who talks down to everybody and acts like he's in charge when he's not, and mistakenly view this as being "manly," or "having a lot of confidence," or "being in charge," or "being a great guy." I assure you, guys like this aren't any of these things.
Let me tell you how most men see guys like these: anyone can be some twit who thinks he knows what he's talking about when he really doesn't. It doesn't take much more than sheer stupidity combined with audacity, and it isn't a trait worth respecting. But most men want to have respect for our fellow human being, and we definitely don't want to disseminate false information that could later lead to trouble, or act like we're in charge of another human being that really, we have no good reason to be in authority over. So we act civil. We don't overstep our boundaries, and we treat each other with respect. But women, being completely clueless as to these basic, everyday occurrences, actually take it seriously when some idiot acts like he's in charge but isn't. They seem to think that just because someone is pompous enough to act that way, it must mean he has some real authority. And so they end up going for pompous twits, mainly because they're too stupid to understand what really being in charge means.
So that's what being attracted to a$sholes means. You may not realize that they're a$sholes because you're stupid, but they are, and you are attracted to them. You're just too stupid to know that you're attracted to them because you're too stupid to know they're a$sholes in the first place. Get it? - Because nice, respectful, considerate guys that give you all the attention you want rarely ever get the girl.
- I don't mean to be "this person", but I can't help noticing that the few men who do believe this nonsense do NOT have much relationship experience.
Yeah, some women are definitely attracted to piece of crap men, but the same can be said about men falling in love with piece of crap women. It happens...
