Monday, April 29

What to do about racial jealousy?

Asked by Ahmed at 29 April,2013
I HATE, HATE, HATE being Indian and I hate it even more when good looking white people tell people of other races, especially Indians, crap like "Oh, there's good looking and ugly people in every race". And I hate when some Indians bring up Bollywood actors and actresses when confronted with the ugliness of their own race. Those people are less than 0.1% of the Indian population. All you have to do is look around. I feel guilty sometimes even for liking white girls. I feel disgusted with myself because I feel like they're completely out of my league. Honestly, I feel so trapped. I want to have some of the adventures and experiences that whites and other races take for granted, but I know I can't. How do you know there is a god? If there was I wouldn't be on here so angry.

Best Answer:
Private at 29 April,2013
yes on a majority, whites are better looking, but trust me, whites dont really have more fun than most other people. most of time whites spend their time acting cool, trying to fit in, and worrying what other people think of them, just like everyone else! they have their own insecurities just like everyone else. yes even the ones that act like they arent insecure about anything, have insecurities. and most of us will aventually get old and lose our looks. its only a matter of time. as you get older you will get sick of seeing all the good looking people act cool, and not because youre jealous, but because they just act so fucking stupid. and the older you get the more obvious their stupidity becomes, and the more annoyed it makes you. i try my hardest to avoided all those kind of people. to tell you the truth, if i was to walk down the street and see my past self, i would avoid me. or slap the shit out of myself for acting so fucking stupid! oh yeah, and if youre having a hard time looking for a date, just remember that looks do matter, to an extent. just clean yourself up, and try to work with what you got. its true what people say, that additude does count for alot. i mean some of the most regular looking people become hearttrobs. i know it sucks to have to dress up to get a date, but im just being realistic. or you can just be yourself and play the waiting game. or you can play dressup, then once you hook one, slowly let yourself go, just like most people do.

Other Answers:
  1. If u hate your culture and race, the way god made u, then tough luck bruh.
  2. bleach your skin , it worked for michael jackson
  3. Dude, stop (hammer time) <------ had to add that sorry, there is absolutely nothing wrong with liking any other race, there is no law of it and God does not restrict it, famous Christian people like the rapper Tobymac (Kevin Mckeehan) married a Jamaican! He is white! There aint nothing wrong with that, Jesus mad you an Indian, so be a proud Indian! Take it like a man! And by the way the Indians near me (Durban) are the coolest people around town! If you are South African and know Trevor Noah the comedian, you'll know that even he says that, you guys got the bling! Be proud of yourself
  4. yes on a majority, whites are better looking, but trust me, whites dont really have more fun than most other people. most of time whites spend their time acting cool, trying to fit in, and worrying what other people think of them, just like everyone else! they have their own insecurities just like everyone else. yes even the ones that act like they arent insecure about anything, have insecurities. and most of us will aventually get old and lose our looks.
    its only a matter of time. as you get older you will get sick of seeing all the good looking people act cool, and not because youre jealous, but because they just act so fucking stupid. and the older you get the more obvious their stupidity becomes, and the more annoyed it makes you. i try my hardest to avoided all those kind of people. to tell you the truth, if i was to walk down the street and see my past self, i would avoid me. or slap the shit out of myself for acting so fucking stupid!
    oh yeah, and if youre having a hard time looking for a date, just remember that looks do matter, to an extent. just clean yourself up, and try to work with what you got. its true what people say, that additude does count for alot. i mean some of the most regular looking people become hearttrobs.
    i know it sucks to have to dress up to get a date, but im just being realistic. or you can just be yourself and play the waiting game. or you can play dressup, then once you hook one, slowly let yourself go, just like most people do.
  5. Yes, white girls are out of your league lol but if you feel comfortable, then you should go out with them. If you don't, well then try dating a good looking Latina or a Ethiopian...something like that. Those probably wouldn't be out of your league cause they tend to have similar skin complexion to an Indian.