I'm curious as to what guys have against plus-sized women? Why do they lust over the photoshopped thin magazine girls instead of real girls. I am average weight, this stuff isn't said about me but it angers me to no end. One of my best friends is a "fat chick". Women don't make fun of fat guys constantly. A in-shape woman is more likely to date a overweight guy than a in-shape guy dating a overweight woman. Any thoughts? Are men just that pea-brained that their little head does their thinking for them?
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WWCSD at 30 April,2013
My sister said the same thing until she developed diabetes type II at age 20. Woohoo. What induced that? Well, two doctors said weight gain but they have to be wrong!! Don't they!? She still denies it. She is trying to stay healthy without necessarily changing her diet or actually doing some physical work. If she achieves anything that makes her healthier I will write a book titled "How to change while not changing". When I was skinny I had to work my ass off to get dates. That being said I was extremely athletic. After the age of 15, I have had to work to put food in my plate and my family's. Now I have a patent, doing a masters at an Ivy League School and have a killer body... how? Work. Day in, day out. Discipline. Day in, day out. Bill Gates said that before you earned something you had to earn it and earn it again and again until you had the results that you wanted. If you cared about your friend you wouldn't take her side on this. So I am going to put it clear: 1) Do I want a relationship with someone who is more likely to die than me? No. 2) Do I want to be with someone who can smother me while on top? No. 3) Do I want to be with someone who is difficult to have sex with because you need to get through the fat first? No. 4) Do I want to be with someone that is more likely to give her children medical problems? No I could go on but I hope that cuts it for you. The problem with fat girls is that they can't admit they have a problem. And while is true that women would date fat guys easier than the other way around, they wouldn't date skinny guys easier than the other way around. Even if it makes more sense. Why? They look more masculine, bigger, blah blah blah. You can like whatever you like... but don't come into my space and tell me what I can or can't like.
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- Now, large hips is one thing. But a large upper body is definitely unattractive.
And here's why: A large ribcage / wide shoulders are a masculine feature and reminds us psychologically of men.
Out of the corner of my eye at first all fat women I assume are men until I turn and look. - The only thing I have "against" them is the health problems their overweightness can cause to them. Other than that I don't mind them being overweight
- I don't like... Big butts and i can't deny.
- No and no. First off, those hot girls in magazines aren't photoshopped, dont fool yourself. Its because guys are extreaaaaamly sexual to the point you wouldnt believe. You have no idea how much of a difference it makes having sex with a hot girl or a fat girl.
- "What do guys have against "fat" (overweight) women?"
Answer: Fat - Men are generally not attracted to overweight women.
This is a generalization.
We can also say that women are not attracted to overweight men.
Neither of those statements are true 100% of the time.
Being overweight is usually a sign of an unhealthy lifestyle and subconsciously we are aware of this.
Our bodies tell us who to choose just as a much as our minds.
And our bodies are naturally attracted to the fittest mate in order to give our genetics the best chance at survival.
I'm an overweight guy and I've had the same experience as you describe. Maybe not as severe though. The difference is men are less likely to show that they are hurt or offended because we're supposed to be strong.
Of course, there will always be men and women who want "more cushin' for the pushin'." Just not as many.
Recommendation: Be yourself, as long as you are happy with yourself. - For sure naturally fat (overweight) women will diet and exercise strenuously to lose weight and find a man because they are unable to attract any men unless they are voluptuous. Men hate naturally fat women, they prefer very skinny girs, unless they are very voluptuous.
- My sister said the same thing until she developed diabetes type II at age 20. Woohoo. What induced that? Well, two doctors said weight gain but they have to be wrong!! Don't they!? She still denies it. She is trying to stay healthy without necessarily changing her diet or actually doing some physical work. If she achieves anything that makes her healthier I will write a book titled "How to change while not changing".
When I was skinny I had to work my ass off to get dates. That being said I was extremely athletic. After the age of 15, I have had to work to put food in my plate and my family's. Now I have a patent, doing a masters at an Ivy League School and have a killer body... how? Work. Day in, day out. Discipline. Day in, day out.
Bill Gates said that before you earned something you had to earn it and earn it again and again until you had the results that you wanted.
If you cared about your friend you wouldn't take her side on this. So I am going to put it clear:
1) Do I want a relationship with someone who is more likely to die than me? No.
2) Do I want to be with someone who can smother me while on top? No.
3) Do I want to be with someone who is difficult to have sex with because you need to get through the fat first? No.
4) Do I want to be with someone that is more likely to give her children medical problems? No
I could go on but I hope that cuts it for you. The problem with fat girls is that they can't admit they have a problem. And while is true that women would date fat guys easier than the other way around, they wouldn't date skinny guys easier than the other way around. Even if it makes more sense. Why? They look more masculine, bigger, blah blah blah.
You can like whatever you like... but don't come into my space and tell me what I can or can't like. - What do you have against skinny women? What makes a skinny girl fake? What makes a man pea-brained for simply liking what he likes?
I mean, if someone prefers to listen to crap music like coldplay and nickelback, instead of great music like Suicidal Tendencies or the Bad Brains, does that make them a pea-brain? O.K. bad example (LOL), but you get my drift. - yep...those little bodies trigger the chemicals in our minds that make our manhood rise to the occasion. It must be a genetic make up from way back in the beginning days when all women were lean and in shape from eating the only food available and not the fast food stuff of today. If anything has changed I would have to say it was the metabolism of women from eating so much of the good food we have now...chug-a-lug that 24 0z soda and enjoy that large order of fries, and then complain that your not fat just "plus sized"
