It mind baffles me. I can't remember the last time I had sex with a woman and she "faked" it. The women I have been with, thats beyond their personality. They always get their first before you even think about it. They even tell you, don't come first before I do. And they would not want to even fake it because that would mean they are wasting an experience. I just can't understand what goes through a womans mind when she fakes it. All you are doing is letting the guy get off easily. But then again I'm not having sex with girls under 20 either, so maybe its an age thing because it gets a lot wetter naturally My friends have conversations about this all the time. They aren't faking anything, They wont let you finish if you aren't getting them off. They get theirs then you get yours (if you are the male). Most don't have a struggle getting theirs. I mean they have been doing it for over a decade. How long does it take to figure out what gets you off. people you can't fake it, it gets wetter. guys can't fake one either, stuff comes out the body naturally. if somebody fakes it, and you fall for it, you are an idiot. it feels a lot different after wards. You sound young. I just asked my ex, and she would have no problem telling me she faked an orgasm. Her words was like "what on gods earth would i fake an orgasm for, and who told them that men even care that you get off". Seriously the girls im with aren't faking it. Maybe you guys have bad experiences. to some women sex feels like a chore. But like i said before my friends tell me all the time, we talk about this stuff, and they blantely say they don't fake it ever. What sense would that make. pearl i know what happens when a woman orgasms. i don't need to be a woman for that. and those women know their bodies i guess. you may fake but most women don't
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My Evil Twin at 12 May,2013
agree... although, I think this is an "education failure", (there are physiological responses that CAN NOT be 'faked', but young [inexperienced] guys don't know what to look for) as well as an ''honesty failure'' by the female that would rather sacrifice pleasure than to suffer a momentary embarrassment of telling him what feels good and what does not feel good. how hard is to say, "I expect to orgasm too, try harder, you are NOT finished." ? added. the women saying that we can't tell the difference are demonstrating THEIR inexperience. they think that thing they discovered in the bathtub when they were 12-13 is an "orgasm", while MANLY Men know that little thing is to a true "orgasm" what a molehill is to a mountain. there are "spasms" that CAN NOT BE FAKED at .8 seconds apart, there are "body flushes" that CAN NOT BE FAKED, and of course there are "incoherent convulsions" that can go on for an hour at a time, that combined with the obscenities that they say while experiencing them WILL NEVER BE FAKED.
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- How would you even KNOW if a woman was faking it?? These chicks who do it, they are good. They can fake the muscle contractions and everything. I laughed when I read this because all I could think of was, this poor guy has no idea, and thinks all of his gf's orgasms are real because he's a DUDE and really has no clue. DO you make them submit to a lie detector test?? I don't fake it but I can honestly say that there are times when I don't get off during sex. It just happens. Too much booze, too tired, just not in the right frame of mind, etc. And my bf is great in bed and I love him. But sometimes it just doesn't happen, bro. Nobody's perfect.
Getting wetter does not = orgasm. It does for MEN, obviously, which is why you guys can't really fake it, because all we have to do is check to see if there's any "stuff" from you in us. But getting wetter happens at different times and does not automatically signify orgasm for women. Sometimes I am really wet and don't get there, and sometimes not so much and I have no problem getting there.
I agree with Pearl. You don't think older women are also much more perfect at faking it? Don't flatter yourself, bro. MOST women fake it. They just don't tell men about it. Pretty much all of the women I know admit to doing it. I don't because I think it's hilariously corny. I just don't say anything, and let him think whatever he wants to, because he doesn't usually ask. If he did, I'd tell him as nicely as possible that it was probably not his fault, etc.
Yea tell yourself that. LOL. Just don't expect women, who actually know what's up, to take your word for it. But whatever makes you feel like da man. LOL hahahaha
I'm the same age as you and so is my bf. Trust me, chicks aren't as honest with men, even guy friends of theirs, as they are with other women. - If they've reached the conclusion that it's not going to happen or is going to take a freakishly long amount of time, then I could imagine why they'd just fake it to get it over with without announcing any exasperation and hurting the guy's feelings.
- Women are very good at faking everything because they don't want to appear weak and vulnerable. Haven't you noticed how pretentious they are around people they dislike or hate? Even when they do like someone it still isn't good enough for them. Women just enjoy playing silly games. It's part of their innate nature.
Young girls just want to have fun at the expense of others and lack self responsibility. - agree...
although, I think this is an "education failure", (there are physiological responses that CAN NOT be 'faked', but young [inexperienced] guys don't know what to look for) as well as an ''honesty failure'' by the female that would rather sacrifice pleasure than to suffer a momentary embarrassment of telling him what feels good and what does not feel good.
how hard is to say, "I expect to orgasm too, try harder, you are NOT finished." ?
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the women saying that we can't tell the difference are demonstrating THEIR inexperience. they think that thing they discovered in the bathtub when they were 12-13 is an "orgasm", while MANLY Men know that little thing is to a true "orgasm" what a molehill is to a mountain. there are "spasms" that CAN NOT BE FAKED at .8 seconds apart, there are "body flushes" that CAN NOT BE FAKED, and of course there are "incoherent convulsions" that can go on for an hour at a time, that combined with the obscenities that they say while experiencing them WILL NEVER BE FAKED. - The women you're with are just better at faking it, you dont even know the real uncontrollable signs of orgasm., but thanks for the laugh.
OMG, you're hilarious, now you insist you know women's bodies better than we do ourselves.
Im older than you, dear. A flush is the result of arousal, not orgasm and every single thing you mention can be faked, it seems you dont know the real physiological signs either.
Please, guys, just stop embarrassing yourselves. "MANLY men" and "I dont need to be a woman", you're making tears run down my face now. - Everybody seems to be talking about faking it. But I read this question differently. I think some women do have a hard time reaching orgasm. In fact, one woman I'm seeing has only ever gotten orgasm from another person one time (and she's almost 30), though she can make herself come pretty easily.
I've also wondered how she can have sex without orgasm and we've talked about it. She says she still enjoys the experience and she like making a partner feel good and she gets turned on a feels pleasure. It's just not orgasm. I guess I get it. I mean, just cause you can't come you're not going to quit having sex ever again.
Different situation where a woman is with a guy that just doesn't do it for her and she has to fake it to get him to quit. In those cases, I think eventually the woman is going to end the relationship unless sex is not important to her and everything else is great.