Saturday, May 4

This guy is really good to me, but I can't see myself being intimate, not even kissing - is that shallow?

Asked by Observing at 26 April,2013


Best Answer:
Cody at 26 April,2013
Actually, I'd say it means you're not all that evolved. But then again, who is? Only a handful of people in the world have evolved minds. And those are people who have suffered most of their lives. Its human instinct for the woman to be more attracted to the rough, dominant male while the nice ones who show emotion and have actual features about them are perceived as weak and vulnerable. A woman who is more evolved to be a human rather than the 3rd chimpanzee would be attracted to someone based on their good features, regardless of whether or not he can fight.

Other Answers:
  1. You may just not be attracted to him
    it really depends if you want to actually be intimate or not

    with my boyfriend i wanted to but i didn't find him attractive really and didn't initiate anything because id never done anything before
    so he initiated everything, then i got used to it, then i started to initiate it
  2. There isn't enough information in your question to determine if you're shallow or not. Do you not want to kiss him or be intimate with him because you think he is ugly? Or because he doesn't make enough money? Doesn't dress to your standards? If you say no to all of them, then I would just say there isn't a spark there and you should just put him in the "friend zone". It's always good to have guy friends in the friend zone, they are very reliable and aren't just there to use you.
  3. No, i dont think it shallow if its not there its just not there. i went on a couple of dates with this guy and he was such a nice guy but when he kissed me there was just nothing there and to be honest it was a little awkward. Just be honest with him because its going to hurt him more if you lead him on and he finds out later
  4. Actually, I'd say it means you're not all that evolved. But then again, who is? Only a handful of people in the world have evolved minds. And those are people who have suffered most of their lives.

    Its human instinct for the woman to be more attracted to the rough, dominant male while the nice ones who show emotion and have actual features about them are perceived as weak and vulnerable.

    A woman who is more evolved to be a human rather than the 3rd chimpanzee would be attracted to someone based on their good features, regardless of whether or not he can fight.
  5. no, I have NO problem with a female stating "attractive" is a "physical trait"...
    just don't complain when "he" doesn't want you because your boobs are too small.