I don't understand. This man is being honest and if the girl isn't interested, she can just say no. Is this a case of women being overly emotional again?
Best Answer:
Evil Brother at 15 May,2013
I feel there is nothing wrong with a guy wanting friends with benefits. Just like I feel there is nothing wrong with a woman being a gold digger. AS LONG AS THEY ARE HONEST AND UP FRONT ABOUT IT!!!!!!! The only problem I see is when on pretends to be interested in a long term loving relationship when all they want is sex or money.
Other Answers:
- yup, she can just say no if she doesn't want to. No big deal.
- Just a case of men having two heads and no brain. We can call you jerks if we want because...you are.
- You have to find the right girl who agrees to this arrangement, that's all. If you were a boyfriend and decided all of a sudden that you just wanted to be a booty call with no attachment, then yes, you would be a jerk.
- Most women think all guys are jerks. It doesn't matter what we do.
Yes,they are overly emotional. - Seeking a FWB relationship doesn't make a guy a "jerk."
People are suggesting that you're a "jerk" because you're rejecting a girl as a romantic partner simply because her face isn't pretty enough.
A lot of people feel like if she's a cool person, she makes you feel good, you enjoy her company, and the sex is great, than anything after that is just cruel nitpicking.
But... a lot of people disagree.
I don't have all the answers here. - I feel there is nothing wrong with a guy wanting friends with benefits. Just like I feel there is nothing wrong with a woman being a gold digger.
AS LONG AS THEY ARE HONEST AND UP FRONT ABOUT IT!!!!!!!
The only problem I see is when on pretends to be interested in a long term loving relationship when all they want is sex or money. - Men are always complaining about women thinking they only want sex, and don't care for relationships. Guys that declare they just want a FWB confirms that there are men who just want sex - which is a very "jerkish" quality.