I'm kinda in a rut, I'm not doing so well in my life, I need more confidence & will power, I need to work harder and focus more, however i seem to have little will power to do so, i just feel like im not good enough or theirs so many others that are better. My boy friend tells me i'm the most amazing person there is, :) always says I'm not a mean person when i call myself that, even when im hard of him over something...no matter how hurt he is he always says it :), He s great, I love him. I just can''t help but feel inferior to other girls or people, I never feel good enough, or i always think about how others are better for him. or fear to lose him cause that.. :( i know it's not right i think that way, but I was once told it was cause i have sled esteem issues, I have no issue with my looks, I'm told quiet frequently im cute, however i don't know... I just feel so dumb, and mean.
Best Answer:
Bushido at 08 May,2013
Maybe you just feel like there is no point. You could get a hobby. It would raise your own image of yourself and also make you look better in the eyes of others through confidence. Try to put a goal forth. Think of the things that you could achieve instead of thinking "I'm lazy, i'm unmotivated, I don't want to go". Think about the things you DO want, like self esteem.
Other Answers:
- It's great that others give you so many compliments, but perhaps you should look within & find things about yourself that YOU love. So try making a list of 10 or 20 things about yourself that you love & are proud of. Maybe start a new hobby or learn a new skill. When you're feeling down on yourself, or having any kind of negative emotions, take that energy & turn it around into something positive... like exercising or doing something you love.
I've had a low self-esteem for years & the key is to find the good & beauty within yourself. It's wonderful that others see it within you, but don't rely on them to find it. Look within & see it yourself. Turn all negativity around into positive action. Good luck & remember you really are beautiful, unique, & special. - gettin high and dancing...
- hummm.. unless you email a pic of yourself, I can't tell you if you have a problem. I mean, if you are reallllly fat and realllly ugly... you could have a point..
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You could get a hobby. It would raise your own image of yourself and also make you look better in the eyes of others through confidence.
Try to put a goal forth. Think of the things that you could achieve instead of thinking "I'm lazy, i'm unmotivated, I don't want to go". Think about the things you DO want, like self esteem.