why is it that when a man treat a woman with dignity and respect, they take that as weakness and use him. i am a firm believer that a woman should be taken and treated with the utmost respect. my last girlfriend we use to argue when she would open her door. cause i would tell her that thats my job to open her door and let me do my job. as long as we went anywhere together she could open a door or pull out her chair to set down. i made sure that every month we went out to celebrate the anniversary of the day i met her. i made sure that i cooked three times a week she cooked once we ate sandwhiches one day went out to get on fridays and ordered out one day. im an active person, i like bowling putt putt golf or just a simple walk around the block talking holding hands. now what do u think about this, it was rainning one day (not a massive down pour, a sprinkle) i made some finger food and soda and a rose and and a blanket and placed it in my trunk. i went over to her place and convienced her to come with me. i took her to our favorite park. then i got out went to the trunk and placed the blanket over the back seat and got the food and soda and rose. after everything was in place, i told her that i just wanted to take her to a picnic and that who need the sun to have a picnic. then i asked her to join me in the backseat. she didnt want to get out and get wet. this is the treatment that men get when they try to treat a woman nicely. is it that women are so use to being dogged out, cursed out, not taken out, that when they do find some who treat them good the only way they know how to act is in a negative way. do i need to start calling the next woman i meet b~#** and wh%# to keep her. do i need to just start arguing fussing the time i come home. and stop the other things. cause the other isnt working, it seems like the other is what women today wants.
Best Answer:
MADLUV at 14 May,2013
do i need to start calling the next woman i meet b~#** and wh%# to keep her. do i need to just start arguing fussing the time i come home. and stop the other things. Depends on what type of girl you want! Just because one or 10 women don't like what you do don't mean we all do! i just think you need to find a women with the same ideals! But hey if you want to change who you are for women in general it's your life to life. I a women would never do this and never have.. sounds cool with your stuff. but i would be the one to say this isn't my cup of tea.. can we jump in puddles now!!! this car stuff is for the weak! and then we would go play lazer tag! Yes i'm a big kid! but i make it easy for men to please me i tell them what i want! Lucky for me it's not what most other chicks want!
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- Both approaches are way too extreme. All these over the top gestures don't seem sincere and probably creep people out. Then, your interesting idea of cursing is the next conclusion you jump to. Why can't you be rational?
- do i need to start calling the next woman i meet b~#** and wh%# to keep her. do i need to just start arguing fussing the time i come home. and stop the other things.
Depends on what type of girl you want!
Just because one or 10 women don't like what you do don't mean we all do!
i just think you need to find a women with the same ideals! But hey if you want to change who you are for women in general it's your life to life.
I a women would never do this and never have.. sounds cool with your stuff.
but i would be the one to say this isn't my cup of tea.. can we jump in puddles now!!! this car stuff is for the weak!
and then we would go play lazer tag!
Yes i'm a big kid!
but i make it easy for men to please me i tell them what i want! Lucky for me it's not what most other chicks want! - Just as a man who doesn't treat his woman properly is not a real man, a woman who doesn't treat her man properly is not a real woman.
Don't let her drag you down. Find someone who will treat you nicely. Someone who deserves you. - Just because one woman didn't appreciate you or your romance, it doesn't mean all women are the exact same. I hate it when people jump to conclusions.
Almost every single man I've met has treated me like absolute trash in every way possible, even though I'm extremely nice to everyone I encounter. However, I'm intelligent enough to realize that people are individuals, and their gender usually has little to do with who they are as a person. I simply moved on to meet others.
My boyfriend was the first genuine nice guy I'd ever met, which is why we've been together almost three years and now live happily together. - It doesn't sound like you really respect your girlfriend if you don't respect her decision to open her own dang door.
Treating a woman with dignity and respect is not just acting like a stereotypical gentleman from the turn of the 19th century. It is caring about her happiness and respecting her mind and decisions. - Stop treating women like they are little whiny babies, and maybe your next relationship will be more successful.