I'm tired and I feel sad why i do that? i cry every day..i am not gay. I think sometimes in suicide. I feel a shame a shame a shame... I'm afraid to go to a psychiatrist. help , help me please . i am a boy.
Best Answer:
Nota LGBT at 05 May,2013
Hello again Sabrina, I answered a question for you a few days ago. You are tired and sad because you are depressed. You have too much on your mind right now. The daily crying could very well be becuase of the depression also. Most importantly, you are NOT gay. Even if you were, there is nothing wrong with that. But, being born in the wrong body, does not make you gay. It makes you feel like you are born in the wrong body. You have two options as I see it. You can live as a boy, in a boys body, and tell society that you are a boy, and in your mind you keep feeling like a girl. OR, you can live as a girl, and tell society that you are a girl, and feel comfortable with who you are. I think you want to feel comfortable with who you are, and that is Sabrina. You really need to talk to a professional about your feelings about yourself. You have to learn to accept yourself as you are (as Sabrina), despite having guy junk. You have to get rid of feeling a shame about it, and learn to be proud of who you are. A psychologist, (or psychiatrist or gender identity specialist) is there to help you, and they won't judge you. What are you afraid of them for, as they want to help you. I noticed that your questions all deal with this issue, and I really hope that you can get over it and start enjoying your life. If you wish to talk to me, go to my profile and send me an email. We can talk a bit, and maybe I can convince you that you that Sabrina is really a great person, and can have a great and happy future. Cheer up Sabrina !!!!
Other Answers:
- It's perfectly normal for a female to wear female clothing. Do not be sad about it; you're not gay for wearing your gendered clothing. No suicide for being normal.
- You want to stop wearing clothes? I think you phrased this wrong. I enjoy wearing clothes because they cover me up, and everyone should like that unless its gettin really hot outside
- Well, two things are possible.
A) You have a cross-dressing fetish. You're a heterosexual man who likes to put on women's clothes. You get some judgment for this, but there's really nothing wrong it it.
B) You're a transsexual. You're a woman born in a man's body. Some day, you may need to consider gender reassignment surgery if you're ever going to feel comfortable in your own skin.
People can be happy being either. Don't kill yourself; you just need to figure out how to make peace with yourself. - i'm a little bit confused.....your name is sabrina(girl name).....so where is the problem on wearing clothes women?o.0
- Don't be so down. If wearing clothes is making you want to kill yourself, stop wearing them. Maybe a nudist colony?
- Hello again Sabrina,
I answered a question for you a few days ago. You are tired and sad because you are depressed. You have too much on your mind right now. The daily crying could very well be becuase of the depression also. Most importantly, you are NOT gay. Even if you were, there is nothing wrong with that. But, being born in the wrong body, does not make you gay. It makes you feel like you are born in the wrong body.
You have two options as I see it. You can live as a boy, in a boys body, and tell society that you are a boy, and in your mind you keep feeling like a girl. OR, you can live as a girl, and tell society that you are a girl, and feel comfortable with who you are. I think you want to feel comfortable with who you are, and that is Sabrina.
You really need to talk to a professional about your feelings about yourself. You have to learn to accept yourself as you are (as Sabrina), despite having guy junk. You have to get rid of feeling a shame about it, and learn to be proud of who you are. A psychologist, (or psychiatrist or gender identity specialist) is there to help you, and they won't judge you. What are you afraid of them for, as they want to help you.
I noticed that your questions all deal with this issue, and I really hope that you can get over it and start enjoying your life.
If you wish to talk to me, go to my profile and send me an email. We can talk a bit, and maybe I can convince you that you that Sabrina is really a great person, and can have a great and happy future.
Cheer up Sabrina !!!!