I'm Half Black (mom is light skin black) & my Dad is Mexican American. I look like my dad but you can clearly tell I'm black. So my girlfriend is Mexican & black girls are rude as hell to her & lash out at me for no reason. I don't get mad but it does bother me a little bit. Chitty chitty bang - I'm not exaggerating lol. But I'm proud to be black & I love my mom, however I was also raised to value Mexican culture. I think black girls are cool, but I do like Latinas the most.
Best Answer:
Chitty Chitty Bang Bang♡ at 13 May,2013
I'm Black, but I don't know. I've never cared about Black guys dating other races (unless he's like those bitter ones who are annoying & stereotype), so I don't know. Closed doors is kind of right though, I've always had a lot of Latin friends, and I've dated Latin guys and Black guys have hated it. I dated a Black guy last year who actually was African American from LA, and he HATED that my ex was Mexican. I didn't understand that at all, he said he thought I dated White guys, like suddenly White guys are better for Black girls to date than Mexican guys are?? It was an awkward conversation. I love Latinos, so I never cared. But then, tbh, how often does this really happen? I'm sure you're exaggerating to make a point. With the Mexican guys I used to date in Socal, I would get dirty looks and glares from some Black guys (usually ones in groups), and it made me feel annoyed, but it definitely wasn't every Black guy, just like I'm sure it's not ever Black girl, or most. Probably just a couple.
Other Answers:
- Jealously probably.
- I work around a lot of black and hispanic men. I was honestly astounded to hear the way they talk about eachother. I never knew there was such a feud. The blacks at my job think the hispanics are lazy, and the hispanics think that the blacks are lazy. I never knew there was feud between the two cultures till i took that job
- they is ignorant, and jealous that she's with you
- Nationalism.
- I'm a black girl and other black girls give me attitude too. I'm going to guess it's jealousy. You're probably hot and they think you should be dating one of them.
- Where does this happen? I live on the east coast and no one really cares about that. Are you sure there isn't something you two are doing to attract such a fuss?
- black people always have attitudes
- I'm Black, but I don't know. I've never cared about Black guys dating other races (unless he's like those bitter ones who are annoying & stereotype), so I don't know. Closed doors is kind of right though, I've always had a lot of Latin friends, and I've dated Latin guys and Black guys have hated it. I dated a Black guy last year who actually was African American from LA, and he HATED that my ex was Mexican. I didn't understand that at all, he said he thought I dated White guys, like suddenly White guys are better for Black girls to date than Mexican guys are?? It was an awkward conversation. I love Latinos, so I never cared.
But then, tbh, how often does this really happen? I'm sure you're exaggerating to make a point. With the Mexican guys I used to date in Socal, I would get dirty looks and glares from some Black guys (usually ones in groups), and it made me feel annoyed, but it definitely wasn't every Black guy, just like I'm sure it's not ever Black girl, or most. Probably just a couple.