Is the only way to tell if a girl like you is to ask?

Asked by mr dance moves at 30 April,2013
I notice a lot of times women say its obvious. I seriously don't think its obvious. How can you tell about people who just want to be friends to somebody who is actually interested in you. Looking for certain signs to this answer. Cause most of the signs I see sound like signs for a great friendship as well

Best Answer:

Raoul at 30 April,2013
I've had plenty of luck with the eye contact strategy. You can ask her if she wants to do something that can be considered a date. For example, dinner for just the two of you. If it's a nice restaurant she'll probably ask "as in a date?" That usually means, she's hesitant, or you surprised her because she wasn't expecting it, she hadn't thought of you that way, etc.. Either way, you create an intimate/romantic atmosphere (even if it's just you two hanging out at the park, or at school, or something.) Then when you're both talking you keep eye contact, you test the limits of her personal space. Taking baby steps. Edit: So here's where you find out. Because two things may happen. Either she feels where you're going and she leans in and then you kiss each other, or she breaks the conversation and eye contact and acts flustered. She will stop you when you've hit the limit she's set. I'm not the most attractive guy, but 3/4 of my serious relationships, I was simply there for the girl as a friend, showed her she was important to me, and simply created a comfort zone where we could step in and out of each others personal space, and they actually told me they liked me. Those girls couldn't have been any more different. I'm convinced that if you're genuine and a patient person, you can find a good life partner.

Other Answers:

1. Yes, but if the feelings aren't mutual it can be awkward.
   
2. I would not ask because most of the time us girls won't own up to it so it better just to READ THERE BODY LANGUAGE.
   
3. I've had plenty of luck with the eye contact strategy.
   
   You can ask her if she wants to do something that can be considered a date.
   For example, dinner for just the two of you.
   
   If it's a nice restaurant she'll probably ask "as in a date?"
   That usually means, she's hesitant, or you surprised her because she wasn't expecting it, she hadn't thought of you that way, etc..
   
   Either way, you create an intimate/romantic atmosphere (even if it's just you two hanging out at the park, or at school, or something.)
   
   Then when you're both talking you keep eye contact, you test the limits of her personal space. Taking baby steps.
   
   Edit: So here's where you find out. Because two things may happen. Either she feels where you're going and she leans in and then you kiss each other, or she breaks the conversation and eye contact and acts flustered.
   
   She will stop you when you've hit the limit she's set. I'm not the most attractive guy, but 3/4 of my serious relationships, I was simply there for the girl as a friend, showed her she was important to me, and simply created a comfort zone where we could step in and out of each others personal space, and they actually told me they liked me.
   
   Those girls couldn't have been any more different. I'm convinced that if you're genuine and a patient person, you can find a good life partner.
   
4. if she isn't on facebook or twitter while on a date- that's it. She's into you.
   
5. Yes.